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A Khangtote Gamtat Dan


French mipi in etiquette thupisak mahmah uh a, English te in manner thupi sim mahmah uh hi. 

A theipen, a siampen, a zangpen, a ciingpen cihna hilo in mite gamtat luhek zia i muh ciang i etteh ding zong om hiveh aw i cih hun om a, tuate phawk kikkik na dingin kong zawng singmat suk gawp ding hi. Kei theihna ciangah kei khanna kim leh pam pen leitungah a khangto pente mun leh tenna hilo cih ka tel hi. Tua manin khuapizaw ka zin ciang ka kisin ding ka mu thuah zel hi. Minam dang ka tuak khak ciang ka etteh ding na omzel a, ka kisin zel hi. "Eh, tua bang hizaw maw" cih hun tam hi. Khua leh tui peel a gamvak khiat pen meetna tampi om a, eima khua ah nuamtak sa a i om hunte i phawk vangvang hun zong om hi. I khualzinna leitung kici hiven, tuakkhak thu themthem kikum leng hilo dia. 

Tuipi gal kan a civilization huih dik masa, kalsang suan masa minam lakah i bual khak sunsun ciang seem... i kisin ding diil keei hi. A lamsau i theihpak loh Auto-Teller Machine cihna a hileltak ATM khawng pan sum hong pusuak deldel ciang lungsim hong tawldamsak mahmah napi i ngaihsutna zong hong vaksak gawpgawp sa mawk ing. Amau vanzat sang a nuntakzia, a gamtat zia uh hi lungsim hong sausak! 

Khualam leh gamlam: Amau leh ei pen i kipatkhiatna aki batloh mah bangin i zia i tong zong kibanglo a, ei sang khangto masazaw te tawh i kigenteh nuam pak hi. Nam tampi om thei inteh. 

1. Lamgei ah zun thak pen khualam ah phamawh hetlo napi gamlam ah kizang thei hetlo hi. Zang ngei ung cih zong kigen nuam phalo hi. Amau a thakna ding mun kibawl ah thak ding hi cih ngaihsun uh a, tua bang tawh na khangkhia uh ahih manin a tuabanglo pen lamdang sa uh hi. Tua pen a kilawmzaw na hi takpi hi. Utna peuh ah lamphung lam ngat pahpah pen uital zunthak lua deuh a, khua lam ah zong tua bang zang thei leng 'A Khangtote Gamtat Dan' a zui kihi dinga, ei zong a khangto hi ding hi hang. Zunbuk ah khutsilna ding tuikai om pahpah a, tua ah sillo a pusuah pen 'mawhna' ahih loh hang mawhna zaha khialhna in ngaihsun uh hi. 

2. Awnghawh ciang en nidangin ciangkang kizanga, tuhun ciang tui kizangta hi. Tuipi gal gamte ah ciangkang zanglo, tui zong zanglo, laineel (tissue paper) zang uh hi. Tui zah in a siang taktak diam, themcik a banglai kha diam cih hong ngaihsun sak hi. Mikang nungak, sen nungak ngo deldal siang kilhkelh a kimu, a mai a vun khawng uh no sitset te zong laineel mah a zat uh leh, guai, themkhat a bang kha laitam cih khawng e... ha ha ha...

3. Annek ciang khualam ah bel khut mah tawh kibak ziahziah lel in, ciamnuih siamte bangin 'pianpih sikkeuka' ci ziau lel in nop mahmah lel hi, khut dim in ann bak leng gil zong dim hanhan. Ahi zongin gamlam ah mite in khut tawh ann na ne nawnlo, sikkeu, sikkeuka, temta, ciangkang cih khawng tawh na hih setset mawk uh in, ei a zat ding hong nuampha mello hi. Voksa ngial bang bel khut mah tawh deihtak hum dingin tua ciang ne leng limdiak se hi. Amau gam lamah tuate zat theihloh mawk in 'gilvah' hi pong in, 'lim mahmah' cihna ding a limna teng kikantan kha hi. Ahi zongin 'ki khua ah zin ki nek ne' cih phawkloh lah phamawh mawk hi. 

4. Lengla do ciang amau gamah kitutpih, kihoho, ciamnuinui cih khawng om mello in, khua lam ah bel sun thapai zong hun kinei lel ahih cianga kigualnuam mahmah lel hi. Ei zong mi kiangah vak nuam hileng ut banga kivak theilo, mi zong ei kiangah hong vak pahpah ding uh kideih khollo, eimah beka hun zat nop hun cih khawng kithupisak ta himawk in, 'zin leh leng' pen hilhkholh, theihsak masak ahih kei leh kideih masa khollo hi. Khua lam banga annek lai tuak leh ;hong nekpih vuau; cih ding hipahpahlo ahih cianga kimawkvak mello hi. Cimvak, cimphawng cih bang kitamzat thei khollo hi. Tua bang ahih leh mi kiangah hilo in sumbuk khawng, niangtui zuakna khawng, tui bualna mun khawngah hun zat ding na hizaw mawk hi. 

5. Kizep dan zong khualam ah bel a taw kiphopsa zong kizangzang lel in, a liah ding teng a kidawk kei nak leh, gam lam ah bel tua bang kizang theilo hilo napi kizang utlo himawk hi. Amau gam ah amau tua bang a zatloh uh na sawtta a, ciamnuih bawlna, leh a tuam vilvel a zat utna ahih kei leh ngeina in na zang nawn mello uh hi. Puansilh ding zong a mel kituak ding na khinkhai mahmah citciat uh a, a kituaklo silh ding ut mello uh hi. Tua pen a min phuak siamse uh a Fashion ci se uh hi. Khua lam ah bel a san i neih leh asan silh, a kang i neih leh a kang silh, a vom i neih leh a vom silh hi mai a, ol mahmah hi. Bang hang i nuntakna hamsa sak ding i hiam? A kilawm, a kituak, a siangtho, a limci ding zonna, lunggulhna, deihna leh hanciamna hang hi. 

Tampi om hi. Gen khin zo pak kei ni. Tua bang hun ciang bangcih ding? 

Etiquette leh Manners: Etiquette in 'bang puan silh ding' cih hong hilh a, manners in a silhlo na lawmte kiangah 'bangcih ding' cih hong hilh hi. Mopawi ah pyjamas silh in kihel lecin hong kilawm hetlo ding hi. Suit and tie hileh bel hong kilawm pah setsat hi. Kikhopna ah nasep puan tawh kuan biambuam lecin a kilawmloh mah bangin nasepna ah biakinn puan tawh kuan lecin kilawm tuanlo hi. A dan om cihna hi. A mun leh a hun om cihna hi. 

Sen te zatdan ah annekkhop ciang a kham nunung penin ankuang a zuut ding ciang midang kiangah 'nang gai in' ciin pia masa ding hi kici hi. Midang pia masalo a amah bek in gaihsuak pah pen 'uisan' vai ci uh hi. Kawlte ngeina ah annek ding ciang kianga te suah masak ding pen ngeina hi. Tua zuilo a an bak pah pen 'uisan' vai hileuleu hi. America te dan ah zinpa in ann a kilui teng a gaih teitei ding hi. Ahang - ann kilui, ann kipia pen lim mahmah hi cih lahna ding hi. Tua te pen etiquette hi a, 'ngeina' ahih kei leh zuih teitei ding, zat teitei ding ahi hi. Inn lamah zong tua bang om mah veh aw, bang teng ahia? Ankuang ah upa pen in an a bak mateng kuamah in bakloh ding, ute tutphah pia ding, etc. Etiquette tampi khualam ah zong om hi. 

Tua leh manner eleh? 

Zuih teitei ding, ngeina, zatdan, code of conduct hilo in, ngaihsuttawm thusiamna tawh a kilawma gamtat ding ahi hi. Mikhat in na hong pia, 'lungdam' cih pen gen teitei ding cih omlo hi, ahi zongin cihloh pen thusiamloh vai, ngaihsun theihloh vai ahih manin 'manner neilo' cihna hi. Mawtaw sungah putek khat ding in nang tu kenkan cih kilawm lo a, na tutna awn lecin tua pen 'manner' hi. Thusiam taka nungta cihna hi. Nek ding hong kilui pen lim in lim kei taleh 'lim sa ing' na cih pen a luite lungdamna hi a, lim nasa kei phial zongin thusiamna hi in 'manner' ahi hi. 

Etiquette leh Manner zangsiam peuh leng khualam hi hen aw, gamlam hi hen aw, koi lai koi gam ah kihtak ding, nopmawh sak ding omlo hi. I theihloh a om leh theihsawm ding, i sinloh a om leh kisin ding hibek a, i theihsa i sinsa pen zatzat ding hilel hi. Tuate in mite mai leh eima nuntakna ah lungdamna, lungnopna hong pia hi. Sin nuam, theihsawmlo a 'ko cih dan hi kei' cih lungsim a om leh bel koi mun koi gam peuh ah maizum kituak thei a, maizum i theih kei leh zong mite in hong nuihsan thei ding hi. Theihloh pen haina hipahlo a, theih theihloh, zuihtheihloh, kisinnoploh cihte pen haina namkhat hithei hi. A haite pahtawina omlo a, a pilte kipakta in ki etteh hi. 


Hau Za Cin
Phuitong Liim
 


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